On 13 January 2016, Sarah Owen Bigler wrote a post on Facebook about a good deed that she witnessed at a Target in Glendale, Indiana. This post went viral:
“Yesterday Matt was sick. I picked up Archie from the sitter and Eloise from school and decided to run to Target for a few things. I had hoped to be in and out quickly.
“I found a line with just one person ahead of me and began organizing my items on the conveyor. After placing my items, I look up to see that the person ahead of me was an elderly woman. She was paying for her items with change and wanted to purchase each separately. Part of me, the part that had a long day at work, the part of me who had a 1 1/2 year old having a melt down in the cart, the part that had set an unnecessary timeline for Target and getting home, was frustrated with this woman and the inconvenience she had placed on me.
“BUT then I watched the young employee with this woman. I watched him help her count her change, ever so tenderly taking it from her shaking hands. I listened to him repeatedly saying ‘yes, mam’ to her. When she asked if she had enough to buy a reusable bag, he told her she did and went two lines over to get one for her and then repackaged her items. Never once did this employee huff, gruff or roll his eyes. He was nothing but patient and kind.
“As I was watching him, I saw that Eloise was, too. She was standing next to the woman, watching the employee count the change. I realized I hadn’t been inconvenienced at all. That my daughter was instead witnessing kindness and patience and being taught this valuable lesson by a complete stranger; furthermore, I realized that I too needed a refresher on this lesson.
“When the woman was finished, the employee began ringing up my items and thanked me for my patience. I then thanked him for teaching us patience and kindness by his treatment of that elderly woman. And although my timeline for target was askew, when he was finished I pushed my cart through the store trying to find the manager. I wanted her to know of the employee’s, kindness and patience, and how much it meant to me. After tracking her down and sharing the story with her, we left Target with a cart full of consumable items, but what is more a heart full of gratitude for such an invaluable lesson.
“If you are ever in the Glendale Target, give Ishmael a smile and a nod. The world could use more people like him.”
The cashier was Ishmael Gilbert, age 19, who has a one-year-old daughter named Namya. He was surprised that someone had taken his photo and written about his actions and created a post about him on Facebook — and he was surprised that the post had gone viral. He told the Indianapolis Star, “I was asleep at home and everyone was texting me, ‘Check Facebook, check Facebook.’” He added, “I never thought it’d blow up this big,” he said. “Her post, I guessed it touched a lot of people.” He had realized that a customer and her daughter were watching him help the elderly customer. Mr. Gilbert said, “It felt like a daddy-and-daughter moment a little. She asked, ‘What’s that?’ I said, ‘That’s a penny.’ It felt good because that’s the kind of example I want to be for my daughter.”
For Further Information: Sarah Owen Bigler, “Post.” Facebook. 3 January, 2016, 13 January 2016
For Further Information: Jennifer O’Neill, “Target Cashier’s Good Deed Goes Viral, Thanks to Mom,” Yahoo! Parenting. 19 January 2016
For Further Information: Amy Bartner, “Target cashier’s kindness goes viral.” Indystar (Inianapolis, Indiana). 15 January 2016
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